Building a sense of self in foster children

Children and young people who are in foster care can have a difficult time with figuring out and establishing who they are. This doesn’t just refer to being labelled a ‘foster child’ either – identity also relates to their values and place in their foster family, particularly if they are living with people from a different racial or cultural background.

At Beacon Fostering, we seek to ensure that children in foster care in Liverpool, Preston and the North West have a sense of who they are in spite of their backgrounds, so here are some ways that you can help them build their identity.

Why having a sense of identity is important

Identity is a way in which a child not only defines themselves, but also how they relate to people and the wider world. The beliefs, values and views they hold, along with their interests and pursuits, can influence their decisions and lives, and a child who has a firm sense of identity and self will be able to navigate the challenges of the world with ease.

Supporting uniqueness

As a foster carer, you can start by asking your child what they are interested in and encourage them to pursue their hobbies, whether that be at home or as part of a local club. Show appreciation for their strengths through praise and compliments, and don’t compare them to their peers or anyone else. This will contribute to creating a safe space where your child will feel appreciated and able to be themselves.

Social workers

Social workers can aid in maintaining and promoting a child’s identity, from language to culture. Discussions with them are a good place to start if you’re uncertain.

Ready to start your fostering journey, or looking to transfer? Get in touch with a member of the friendly team at Beacon Fostering today.