How to support your foster child during the first night in their new home

The first night that a foster child spends in their new home is often the most difficult – not just for them, but for their carers as well (especially first-time ones).

What’s important is that the foster parents create a safe, calm and welcoming environment as the child adapts to new surroundings and struggles with fears and trust issues.

Beacon Fostering seeks to guide foster parents at every stage of the fostering journey – especially the beginning – so here are some tips for supporting your foster child in their first night in their new home.

Being prepared

Often, children in foster care arrive at the home at any time of day. If you are expecting a child to come when your household is in bed or preparing to go to bed, ensure that the spare bedroom is prepared with fresh bedsheets, nightclothes, slippers, towels and a toothbrush.

Introduction to new home life

When the child arrives, inform them of what the general expectations are and show them where everything is. If you already have children living with you, you can encourage them to show the child around the house, depending on their age.

Nightlights

Some children in foster care will understandably be scared of the dark, so it helps to ask them if they need anything to make their sleep easier. Check if they would prefer to have the door open or closed, and consider putting a nightlight in their room or the landing. If they are younger (around 1-7 years), you could read them a bedtime story.

We hope these tips help everyone in your household sleep soundly on your foster child’s first night.