Is It Time for Your Foster Child to Have a Phone?

Has the time come when your foster child is asking for a mobile phone, but you’re concerned about unrestricted internet access, social media, and excessive screen time? If so, you may have considered a “dumb phone” as a safer alternative.

What many people don’t realise is that it is possible to turn an iPhone into a much simpler device without the need for third-party apps. Apple’s Assistive Access feature was originally developed to help people with cognitive disabilities use an iPhone more easily and independently, but it can also be a useful tool for younger children who are not yet ready for full smartphone access.

To enable Assistive Access, go to Settings > Accessibility > Assistive Access. During setup, you can choose exactly which apps are available, customise the appearance of the phone, and create a unique passcode to prevent unauthorised changes.

One of the biggest advantages of Assistive Access is that you can remove access to web browsers, social media apps and other online services. This means that even if a child receives a website link in a text message, they will be unable to open it if no browser has been enabled. The result is a much simpler and safer phone experience that focuses on communication rather than online browsing

For older children, Apple has also introduced new child safety features, including Ask to Browse, which allows a parent or guardian to approve access to new websites and manage screen time allowances. However, these features are designed to work through a child account within Family Sharing.

For many foster families, this may not be the most appropriate solution, as it is often important for children to maintain independent accounts that can move with them should their circumstances change. In these situations, Assistive Access may provide a practical alternative, allowing foster carers to create a safer smartphone experience while still helping a young person stay connected with family, friends and support networks.

Android users can achieve similar results through features such as Samsung Easy Mode and Google Family Link, which allow carers to simplify a device and manage app usage, screen time and internet access. While not identical to Assistive Access, they provide useful alternatives for families using Android devices

As with all decisions relating to technology and online safety, any restrictions should be considered alongside the child’s age, individual needs, care plan, and delegated authority arrangement